Why I stopped earning for love? | Fathya Zelinda | TEDxAPU

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Meet Fathya Aully Zelinda, speaker of “Why I Stopped Earning Love.”What if love was never something you had to earn? For years, Fathya measured her worth through achievements, recognition, relationships, and the approval of others. Through her journey, she came to realize that love is not a reward for success nor something granted when we finally become “enough.” Instead, love is a choice—a way of living, creating, and connecting with others. In this deeply personal talk, Fathya reflects on the lessons she learned through self-discovery, relationships, and community, and how letting go of the need for validation allowed her to lead with love—not from emptiness, but from wholeness. What if love was never something you had to earn? For years, Fathya measured her worth through achievements, recognition, relationships, and the approval of others. Through her journey at APU, she came to realize that love is not a reward for success nor something granted when we finally become “enough.” Ins

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