After 30 years of marriage, my in-laws still ask me to step aside for ‘family’ photos

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My in-laws don’t consider spouses family. I am asked to step aside in photos, and I am excluded from the group chat. After 30 years of marriage, it still hurts. What should I do? Advice columnist Carolyn Hax weighs in.

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