You Will Always Reject Love Until You Do This...
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Emotional Intelligence, Daily. Start now: https://www.theschooloflife.com/subscription/ It is a fundamental law of psychology that those who were deprived of love in childhood often grow up to find it indigestible as adults. This film examines the tragic paradox of the "unloved" person: someone who claims to want a happy relationship but subconsciously ensures only misery is possible. Discover the two primary methods of self-sabotage—choosing abusive partners or fleeing from kind ones—and learn how to recognize the "nauseous" feeling of safety for what it really is: a legacy of trauma. #AttachmentTheory #ChildhoodTrauma #SelfSabotage Unlock all the content of The School of Life with a subscription to our podcast, articles, videos, and exercises, specially tailored to your needs. Get weekly insights for better relationships, deeper self-knowledge, and inner calm straight to your inbox. Sign up for more ideas, plus 10% off your first shop order: https://www.theschooloflife.com/signup/
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